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Books that Changed Me

October 1, 2014

I was tagged to make a list of transformative reads.  (I left poetry books out of the list otherwise I would spend weeks deciding.)

Pippi Longstocking by Astrid Lindgren
I’m not exaggerating when I say that I don’t know who I would be without Pippi. The brash, tough, aggressive little girl was my hero. She’s still my hero, tbh.

To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee
Pippi was transformative for kid Lindsay, and this one was transformative for teen Lindsay. Not just the narrative, which was so important for someone who grew up in a small town full of white people, but it also got me interested in “classic” books and movies. I printed a list of the “all-time best books and movies” off the newfangled internet, and I went to the library and signed things out from the list. I thought B&W movies and subtitles and old books were “lame” until I loved TKAM. It was the gateway book for me.

Of Woman Born by Adrienne Rich/History of the Wife by Marilyn Yalom
I read these two books when I got married, and when I was pregnant. It was so helpful for me to know the history and socio-political context of being a wife and mother in North America. These books helped me to thoughtfully reject the parts of these identities that don’t work for me, and find a healthy safe way to be a spouse and parent, Lindsay-style.

Hyperbole and a Half by Allie Brosh
If you haven’t read Allie Brosh’s story of depression yet, you should do it right now. It’s all online. Here’s the links, no excuses:
I learned so much about my own struggles with depression by reading hers. And then, her dog stories made me laugh so hard I cried. There’s a lot of crying when I read her stuff. Lots and lots of crying.

House of Leaves by Mark Z Danielewski
A professor recommended this book to me when I was in university based on my interest in experimental narratives. If you flip through this book, you’ll notice that it’s not “like other books”. Words are all tossed all over the page- backwards, upside down, in strange little boxes, footnotes tell different stories than the rest of the page, you can’t tell which references are real and which are made up. But beyond the cool structure, it’s ABSOLUTELY TERRIFYING. This book will convince you that you’ve gone insane. No other book has messed with my mind like this one. *cold shiver*

Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoyevsky
Speaking of messing with my mind, I still have nightmares about this one. Regular nightmares. *shivers again*

Wolverine Omnibus (various authors/artists)
This collection of over 1000 pages of Wolverine comics got me through a really hard time in my life, and taught me a lot about the person I want to be in the midst of adversity. Wolverine is the toughest mama bear. He will do anything for the people he chooses to care about. I learned a lot about the concept of chosen family, being fiercely loyal, and fighting for what’s important.

The Truth about Stories by Thomas King
This is one of those books that everyone should read, really. Or listen to, since it was originally a lecture. Here’s the link:
It’s a masterfully weaved collection of narratives that taught me so much about Native cultures in North America. Each chapter begins and ends with similar words, but the stories and information contained within make the words ‘mean’ so differently each time. I have lived my life differently because I have heard his stories.

Foe by JM Coetzee
This book is a companion novel to Robinson Crusoe by Daniel Defoe. I read Robinson Crusoe first and hated it with the passion of 1000 burning stars. Defoe created a world where the feminine is completely non-existent, not to mention the gross racist cultural imperialism. The fact that this novel was touted as the quintessential adventure novel for boys for generations is maddening. Coetzee reimagines the Crusoe narrative through a female character, and I sympathized with her character so much. I was removing myself from a stifling misogynist religious tradition at the time, and I felt her erasure and shared her pain. The way Coetzee implicates the reader in her suffering broke me, how we are all implicated in these cultural systems that erase people and ignore human pain.

Castle Waiting by Linda Medley
These comics are a feminist retelling of fairy tales. The drawings are cute and fun, and feature different stories originating from a castle inhabited by societal misfits. My favourite story is about the convent filled with bearded nuns. The stories are refreshing for people whose gender expression doesn’t mesh with the mainstream, and anyone else who has trouble ‘fitting in’. I want to live in the castle with them. They felt like ‘my people’.



Robot the Cat yawning

June 17, 2014


She thinks you’re boring.

Uncanny X-men Activity Book from 1983

March 24, 2014

Uncanny Xmen Activity Book from 1983

I loved THIS POST on io9, so I compiled the pics into a printable pdf.

Thought I’d share it. My kids loved it despite not understanding why I think it’s so funny.

Xmen Activity Book – CLICK HERE FOR THE PDF

Sisters of Mercy Trailer

March 3, 2014

Here’s the trailer for Sisters of Mercy, our newest project. Watch our trailer on Youtube, comment with your hopes and dreams for female superhero characters, give us some encouragement, share with your friends and followers, show us some love!

Sometimes ridiculous and sometimes dead serious, Sisters of Mercy applies a feminist lens to the superhero genre. It’s about complicated and complex women characters, women working together, women making jokes – starring two women of colour!

In the vein of Buffy and Supernatural, the series treads the line between comedy and drama. With snappy dialogue, ridiculous monsters and adorable sidekicks, the Sisters of Mercy Team fight evil while interacting with relevant social issues.

Follow along with the production blog, HERE, for more information.

sisters of mercy press release pdf

New Zealand Lord’s Prayer

October 4, 2013

New Zealand Lord's Prayer

I really love this version of the Lord’s prayer. The photo is from British Columbia though, not NZ. If you click on the picture, it’ll take you to an online version of the entire New Zealand Prayer book.

Adventure Time Hama Beads

August 15, 2013

The kids and I made a whole lot of Adventure Time characters with the hama beads. I found lots of the patterns online, and made up others. We were missing a lot of colours, so we had to make due (hence PB’s red hair.) The kids designed and made all the swords.

Updating. Updating. Updating.

March 16, 2013

Things have been pretty quiet over here at the Bise-en-Scene blog, mostly because we’ve been applying ourselves to our new production company – Farmer Vision.


Check out the website for lots more info.

Here’s a quick update:


We’re promoting a web-series called Irresistible Force. Check it out on Youtube, and leave a comment about who the Canadian Super-Squad should fight! You just might win the contest!


We’re working on a multi-media project about Female Friendships. Check out the Tumblr blog and join the conversation!

where the ground won't shake

Where the Ground Won’t Shake is in its “festival submission” stage. Keep an eye out for its premiere, sometime in 2013, we hope!


Nicholas is doing film and video work. Check him out HERE.
Lindsay still works part-time, while amassing a social media empire for various organizations.
The kids are the funnest and funniest.
The dog is getting old and…


WE GOT A KITTEN! Her name is Robot. We love her.


<3 <3 <3 Bise-en-Scene


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